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Pain

Every summer, two weeks in Berlin.
A city that lets them be.
This is what happens when pain becomes connection.

Berlin, Germany

In an industrial space in Berlin, the word "PAIN" is spray-painted on brick walls. This is where Noah's story begins—not with the pain itself, but with what comes after, when someone shows up in the place where your struggles live and transforms the meaning entirely.


Michèle reached out to me about documenting something real. Years earlier, we'd met on a photography workshop in the Azores, and now she wanted to tell the story of how two sapphic souls found each other in a book café, lost each other to gay panic, then found each other again through perfectly-timed Instagram notifications.


This isn't another couple's session with golden hour poses and forced laughter. This is about transformation, about finding someone who sees you exactly as you are past society's norms, about Berlin as the backdrop where authentic love gets to breathe without performance.


When Noah spoke about their journey—navigating the beautiful complexity of being fully themselves for the first time, fresh from top surgery, stepping into their identity—Michelle was there through all of it. The kind of understanding that feels like recognition: "I feel like Michèle sees me exactly as I am."


The photographs move like a film through emotional chapters: Noah alone with their history in that industrial space, memory fragments of that first encounter in the book café, the longing that followed. Dreams that blur the line between memory and desire, until reality shifts—Michèle appears, transforming that PAIN space from isolation to connection, from solitude to healing.

The story unfolds in visual beats: from contemplation to memory, from yearning to touch, from the raw vulnerability of new love to the quiet intimacy of two people who've found their frequency. Behind closed doors, truth emerges. In familiar book cafés, circles complete. On Berlin streets, they claim their space as their own.


Berlin weaves through it all—not just as location, but as character. The city that gives them anonymity to be authentic, space to love without expectation, permission to write their own story. From underground spaces where they feel at home to canal-side rituals where they end their nights, this is what it looks like when love gets to be itself.


Noah and Michèle didn't want documentation; they wanted transformation captured. They wanted the wholeness of their connection—the playful and the passionate, the vulnerable and the strong, all the ways they get to be fully themselves with each other. What makes this love story extraordinary isn't just their journey, but their refusal to perform it for an audience that doesn't understand what makes them tick.


Some encounters change everything. Some cities let you become who you're meant to be. Some connections run so deep they redefine what's possible—and some pain becomes the foundation for something beautiful.


This is that story.

this is a STORY BY HAFENLIEBE

LOCATION(S)

Berlin, Germany

GUESTS

0

SHOT IN

August

TYPE

Lover's Session

TIME ON SET

8h

DIRECTED BY

BJØRN

For couples whose love refuses to fit someone else's template, who choose authenticity over applause, connection over convention. If your story feels too complex for traditional photography—let's talk.

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